Big Data on a laptop, some options.

Data mining on streams.
http://moa.cms.waikato.ac.nz/rmoa-massive-online-data-stream-classifications-with-r-moa/
http://jwijffels.github.io/RMOA/
https://cran.r-project.org/web/packages/stream/stream.pdf

Database light backend.
https://www.monetdb.org/blog/monetdblite-r

Data mining
https://rdrr.io/cran/ffbase/man/bigglm.ffdf.html
https://cran.r-project.org/web/packages/speedglm/speedglm.pdf
https://cran.r-project.org/web/packages/randomForest.ddR/randomForest.ddR.pdf